Monday, June 6, 2011

Proper Professional: Ashley Getting Dressed

The Proper Professional feature was birthed out of my desire to spread the blogging love while also gaining some insight into professional and business attire in various situations. My goal is to feature bloggers from all different professions, whether stay-at-home moms, mega-corporation executive assistants, work-from-home employees, small office staff, business owners or more, to view different perspectives and opinions on what is appropriate, acceptable, and professional. Hopefully you'll be inspired and introduced to some great new blogs, too! To catch up on previous interviews, click here

Today's feature is Ashley of Ashley Getting Dressed!

Tell us a little about yourself and your blog.
I'm a 24, a typical Aries (independent, opinionated, and full of myself). I love baking, How I Met Your Mother, belting cardigans, and shaved ice. My dislikes include ground beef, baseball, and pie. My blog, Ashley Getting Dressed, is a personal style blog narrated by anecdotes and the occasional over-share. It's fun, you should read!
How did you come up with your blog name?
Well, I tried Monica Getting Sleepy, but it wasn't very catchy. Since I'm Ashley and I get dressed (most days) I figured it was a good fit.
Do you work from home or outside the home, and what do you do?
I work in Human Resources at a large, local non-profit attraction in St. Louis, and I LOVE it! (as far as what attraction, I'll give you a hint - there are a lot of exotic animals around)
Do you have a dress code by which you need to abide (either corporate or self-imposed)? If so, what is it and how do your co-workers (if applicable) approach the dress code?
The majority of our employees are uniformed, so the dress code is pretty loose for office employees. The main rules are no denim, spandex (thank goodness!), flip flops, or skimpy tops. I would say we're casually-business casual - since we're an outdoor attraction, the dress code relaxes quite a bit in the summer. My department is one of the more "dressed up" departments - since we hire everyone, we like to put the best foot forward.
Do you choose your outfits in advance or in the morning, and how long does it take you to get ready in the mornings?
I'm insane and spend about an hour every Sunday picking all of my outfits for the following week. I'm NOT a morning person, and doing this saves me SO much time (no searching for a missing shoe or the perfect belt at the crack of dawn!). Since my outfit is already picked out, I spend about 20 minutes getting ready in the morning.
If you were commissioned to rewrite the dress code, what would you change (if anything)?
Even though I personally don't wear them often, I wish we could wear jeans - It would make those frigid February mornings a little bit easier.
Do you think companies should take into account the potential cost for certain dress codes to be achieved and if so, should they be concerned about the cost being equal for both men and women?
I don't think dress codes should be different for men and women (plus that's super illegal) but I do think that employers should recognize industry standards and salaries when creating a dress code. For example, if everyone at my employer had to wear a suit, half the people would look ridiculous, and almost everyone would be broke as a joke because we work at a non-profit.
What is your definition of professional attire and would this vary if the business is a small business compared to a larger corporation?
Professional attire is whatever is expected of a employee by a client - for example, I think professional attire for a carpenter is dirty pants and calloused hands, but if my doctor showed up like that I'd get worried. Smaller organizations tend to have more of a community or mom and pop feel, so I think it's appropriate for dress codes to get a little bit more relaxed.
What are some pieces that every woman should have available in their professional arsenal?
A go-to dress, black pumps, an outfit that makes you feel unbeatable (for important presentations and meetings), an outfit appropriate for casual events with your boss, and a swimsuit that you can wear with coworkers if you ever have the unfortunate opportunity to go swimming with them (I have! I recommend a retro-style maillot).
What pieces are never professionally appropriate regardless of the situation?
Flip flops (unless it's Hollister or a beach), anything bandage or body-con, stripper shoes (unless you are, in fact, a stripper), and sweatpants.
Describe an outfit you'd wear in each of the following settings: 
1. A typical day at work.
For a typical day at work, I'm in an a-line skirt, top, flats and a cardigan. 
2. A formal business meeting. 
I've (thankfully) never had to go to a formal business meeting, but I would defer to a suit or a matching pencil skirt/cardigan combo with heels.
3. An informal meeting with co-workers.
When I've had informal things with my coworkers (for example, we have an annual bowling tournament we participate in together) I wear sundresses or jeans and a neat top.
4. A business dinner with co-workers and superiors. 
I think no one should be uncomfortable while eating, no matter what the overlying situation is, so I would go with a business dress (wrap or sheath style) with heels and my hair pulled back. And not order the ribs or hot wings.
For more of Ashley's fabulous style, check out Ashley Getting Dressed!

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Hope you all had a wonderful weekend! We certainly did, celebrating my girl's fourth birthday. If you're not a fan on Facebook yet, head on over to see a photo of my birthday outfit (and face painting!). Have a FANTASTIC Monday, everyone!


  1. LOL! I love how you said, "NOT order the ribs or hot wings". I was once an intern and all the mid-managers and execs to the interns out to a bar-b-q place. I stressed so much on the proper way to eat the food! Love her style!

  2. Love her style!

    My husband works for a small company and his one complaint is the difference in dress code for men and women. In the office men canNOT wear any types of shorts or open-toed/sandals. On the other hand, the women can wear shorts (not just capris) and they can wear flip flops. He doesn't understand why the dress code isn't enforced with the women, but he got called out one day for wear Chaco sandals on a Friday afternoon after returning from a business trip.

  3. She is cute...and does a great job of looking professional even though her work atmostphere is relaxed...I like the fact that she is pictured here in all dresses or skirts!! She is dressing for the job she wants and not for the job she has!!! That is a great testimony!

  4. Love her style! And, yeah, never order ribs or wings at a business function - great advice.

  5. I love this series. What a great way to feature new bloggers and learn something in the process.

    I was nodding my head in agreement at most of this post as I TOO work in a non-profit, though mine deals more with exotic plants than animals. I can get away with wearing some of the dressier jeans available nowadays if I style them the same way I would a skirt or slacks.

    As for the rib and hot wing remark - LOVE and so true!

  6. I LOVE Ashley!!! Great guest post!

  7. She sounds funny! I love that stripper shoes are not professional, unless you are indeed, a stripper!! HAHAHHA I have opened her window and will be reading!

    I DO love this piece that you do, Melissa. It's such a great introduction to new {to me} bloggers.

  8. I wish it only took me 20 minutes to get ready.

  9. Ashley is adorable, and I love how she manages to be casual, but professional at the same time. If I worked in a primarily outdoor environment, I think I might slide too much to the casual said...

    I'm glad the birthday weekend was such a success :)

  10. What a great feature. I never knew about her blog until now, so thank you for that!

  11. I love Ashley's style, and this interview is just further proof of her down-to-earthness. One of my faves. :)

  12. Love this feature. She is very cool.

  13. I love Ashley's style. Some fun and bright prints!

  14. Thanks so much for this, Melissa - and thanks to your readers for the kind comments! I'll be linking this post soon (as soon as I can finally use my computer at home!)

  15. Ashley is one of my favorite reads and I often find myself pinning many of her looks. :)

    She's so funny and has great style! :)


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