Just when I thought I was getting used to the idea of settling into my new life as a working single mom, I got called into a meeting with my supervisor and her boss.
And I lost my job today.
For those of you that don't know, I work{ed?} as the Clinical Research Support (basically the administrative assistant) for the Diabetes Research office of a hospital system. I've been here for two years. I get Fridays off with my daughter and have cherished that.
Apparently there has been a decline in study and project proposals and they've decided without those funds coming in, they need to eliminate my position.
Right now, of all the seasons of my life, this is when I need this the LEAST.
They are generously giving me six weeks to stay and if I haven't found a new job at that point, I'll receive some type of severence. The hope is that HR can find me another position within the same hospital system.
My main concern is finding something that will allow me Fridays with my daughter, especially now when I'm going through a divorce and will lose half of my time with her already. I've already been concerned about making ends meet on my current salary; I'm extremely grateful for the amount I am paid and can't afford to take a job that pays anything less.
So...anyone know how I can work from home in a position that doesn't involve being on the phone?
Please pray for me.
Thursday, October 21, 2010
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Yikes, that's awful. I hope they're able to find you another position there. Either way, you'll get through this! Sending good thoughts your way.
ReplyDeletePraying and praying and praying and hugging from NC.
ReplyDeleteMel! I'm so sorry about all of this! Two difficult, life-changing things in a row. I can't imagine the week you are going through. Big time prayers are headed your way. Keep smiling and try to count the blessings you do have. Your adorable daughter - for one.
ReplyDeleteOh, sweetie, that's devastating! I really hope that you do get to find another job, and that it is less stressful than this job has been lately. I strongly believe that luck balances out, so while this has been a very difficult month or two for you, there will be a month or two in the future where you will feel beyond blessed!
ReplyDeleteThat's terrible! Be strong, mama. This is a hard time that just got a little harder, but you WILL get through this, I promise. You'll be amazed at how strong you can be when you have to.
ReplyDeleteHave you thought about substitute teaching? Apply in all of the school districts you can and if you haven't found anything better that will at least help with the bills until something better comes along, and you can usually tell them which days you are unavailable.
I'll be thinking about you.
Oh, bless your heart! You've had such a rough time of it! I'll pray for you that they'll be able to find you a job within the system!!
ReplyDeleteWow. That is a lot of bad news to take in all at once. I will cross all my fingers and toes for you. Hang in there.
ReplyDeleteI so sorry to hear this. Prayer for you.
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Prayers going out to you this instant, and more to come. One door closes, more open and all that jazz. Thinking of you...
ReplyDeleteThat stinks...I guess when it rains, it pours.
ReplyDeleteVirtual hugs coming your way and fingers crossed you find an even better position.
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Oh Melissa, so much hitting you all at once. Lots of prayers coming your way. Hang in there. This too shall pass.
ReplyDeleteWhy is it when it rains, it pours? I hope they find another position for you. I'm so sorry Melissa. You are in my thoughts.
ReplyDeleteAw Melissa, I'm so sorry. It is times like these that make you prove your mettle and I believe you are a strong and steady woman - things are changing seemingly all at the same time but you'll get it through it and be better for it. Warm virtual hugs from my end.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry!!! We're thinking of and praying for you here!
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear that :( I hope they're able to find another position for you!
ReplyDeleteI work from home 2 days a week, and my company does hire a lot of people to be 100% virtual. We have an office in Orlando, I don't know if that's near where you live. If you want to check our listings, send me an email at aeshepherd at gmail dot com and I'll send you a link.
Melissa, I'm so sorry to hear you are going through so much right now. Know that we are thinking about you and sending hugs and prayers your way!
ReplyDeleteOh no, M, I'm so sorry to hear this has happened. I'm thinking of you and hoping that something good comes your way in the next six weeks.
ReplyDeleteOh no! Oh no! What a rotten day!!! I am so sorry about all of the bad that's going on right now.
ReplyDeleteI really hope you're able to find a job that allows you the time you want. I wish I could help! My aunt is a Regional Operations Director for dialysis centers in FL, but she told me that the only job she could get for me would be cleaning bed pans :(
Keep your head up! If I can find a job, you can, too!!!
Aw, I am so, so sorry! Praying and praying for you! Things will work out, it's just a rough road to get there....
ReplyDeleteAck--hang in there! So sorry that all this is hitting you at once. Sending you positive thoughts and prayers upon prayers!!
ReplyDeleteKeep your chin up girl, we are all pulling for you!!! I hope this is one of those blessings in disguise!!!
ReplyDeleteOh my. I'm so sorry to hear this. I'll be thinking of you in the next several weeks hoping something else comes your way. ugh, you know what? sometimes stuff sucks. it's true. and it sucks even more that the best way to get through sucky times is to be strong. it's hard when things suck. But you are strong and you can do it. sending thoughts and prayers your way!!!
ReplyDeleteI hope they'll be able to find you another position that allows you the same flexibility...usually when a door closes, another one opens. It'll only get better from here. (HUG)
ReplyDeleteI will keep you in my thoughts and hope things will turn out good soon.In the main time take one day at the time and don't let your head spin in bad thoughts.Have hope!
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry, Melissa. What crushing news to receive. I will be praying for a new opportunity to present itself. I am not sure if there are many non-profits in FL, but many NPOs offer very flexible schedules and pleasant work environments. And many of the larger non-profits (or those dealing with health care or education, in particular) are able to offer salaries that are quite competitive. Idealist.org is a job site that is used by many non-profits -- it could be worth a look.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear.
ReplyDeleteI've been behind on my blog reading, so I didn't see your initial post. I am so sorry - so incredibly sorry - that you're going through all this. I will keep you in my thoughts, and I wish I could give you a big hug.
ReplyDeleteOh no!! It sucks losing your job! Im currently trying to find a new one, with no luck. Hope you find something new soon.
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Melissa, this is horrible news. Didn't know about the divorce very sorry about that. These are such hard times. I am also foreced to look for a job even though I would love nothing more than to stay as a stay home mom but we can't sell our house and need double income to pay for our expenses. I know consulting jobs allow to work from home and have more flexible hours but not sure if there is consulting work in your field. Good luck to you.
ReplyDeleteOh, Melissa. What a blow, and at such a terrible time. I'm glad that you have some space with 6 weeks to find a new job - that is EXTREMELY generous. Keeping my fingers crossed that you are able to find something that works for you and your family's schedule.
ReplyDeleteMy heart goes out to you with all that you are going through, and while I don't want to pry about the marriage situation, you will be very much in my thoughts as you are making decisions about what is best for you and your daughter.
Big hugs to you.
I am so sorry that you lost your job! Love and prayers--- you can do it!!!!
ReplyDeleteHugs and prayers during this time! Most important remember that you are a child of God! Stay strong and feel the support of your bloggin' family.
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