Friday, August 19, 2011

FBFF: A Dream Is a Wish...

If you've seen the Friend Friday posts but aren't quite sure what they're about, click here to read all about it and here to meet Katy, the creator!

This week Katy mentioned how she's heard about several people who were able to quit their current jobs and walk into the realm of self-employment, doing what they love. As Katy says, "So that got me thinking... we all have dreams, goals, aspirations. Putting them down on paper is often the first step to realizing those dreams."

1. Fess up - if you could do anything professionally what would it be?
Sing. Without a doubt. (Or blog...that too.) I do sing professionally but only as a side job during the Christmas season, it's not something I've done full time but I honestly wish that I could. 


2. What draws you to this?
Singing makes me happy. Music energizes me, it relaxes me, it restores me, it's how God speaks to me a lot of the time (I really miss singing on a worship team) and I can't imagine how sad and depressing my world would be if I couldn't sing. It's how I get my energy out (well, that and working out but I'm not about to become a fitness instructor).

3. When did you first start dreaming about this ideal?
I've wanted to sing for as long as I can remember. My parents have pictures of me when I was just a couple years old stealing the microphone at some big Christmas party. And no I'm not posting them. I was a cute kid though, I'll tell you that, but I don't have a scanner available right now. I was always in chorus, always in choir, always singing with friends, always singing in general.

4. What's holding you back from going all in?
Honestly...the thought that as much as I enjoy it, I'm not quite good enough to do it full time. That and the fact that I'd have to be an independent and I don't feel like messing with keeping track of my taxes and health insurance and all that. Plus...I'm too chicken to actually audition.

5. Sometimes the first step is the hardest... what's one step you can take now on the way to realizing your dream?
I think the fact that I sing professionally on the side is a first step, so I'm kind of already there...(right? At least that's what I'm telling myself...)

So what are YOUR dreams? 

Thursday, August 18, 2011

Daily MelWear: Fully Clothed

It's Thursday! Happy dance! Or not. I can't really dance .

Thanks for being so sweet about my beltlessness (yes, that is now, in fact, a word) yesterday. I'm glad I'm not alone in feeling naked when I'm missing a favorite accessory. It really was pretty comfy and maybe I'll go beltless again, but not today.

Clearly.

We had a little class type thing in our office so I wanted to make sure I did the closed-toe, no jewelry, jacket thing. Yes, there's pattern and more color than I'm sure Corporate would like, but...really, this isn't too far out of code. I think.

I can't belive there's so much talk already about fall. Listen, I live in Florida, we don't really get a "fall" season here. It goes from hot to not-as-hot. Sometimes I think I'd like a real fall with the changing leaves...but then I remember how much I hate being cold and suddenly I'm okay with leaves going from green to dead. I like my Florida sun too much.

Although, I will admit to being a little excited about wearing tights again. They're fun. And my leopard booties. Also fun.



Have a great day, ya'll!

Today's outfit:
Dress: Target
Jacket: Ross? Eh...
Belt: Wal-Mart
Heels: From my mom

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Daily MelWear: I Feel Naked...

If you've been following me for any length of time, you know that I wear a belt pretty much every day.

I couldn't find one that worked the way I wanted with this outfit...so I'm not wearing one. And it makes me feel a little incomplete.

Most people have nightmares that they find themselves walking around naked...I have nightmares that I find myself without belts.

I never claimed to be normal.

Happy Wednesday, friends!

{PS - thank you to those who thought about me and asked about my daughter's first day of VPK! She had a BLAST and couldn't wait to go back the next day! Her daily report was full of good news and I'm so, so proud of her. Taking the day off on Monday to bring her to school and pick her up just makes me wish I could be a stay at home mom, though...}

Today's outfit:
Brown Skirt: Salvation Army
Leopard Blouse: Salvation Army
Red Sandals: From my mom

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Daily MelWear: To Church

I'm guessing most of you haven't noticed, but lately I've been posting my outfits the day after, for various reasons.

Well, yesterday I took the day off from work to be there for my daughter's very first day of VPK! Needless to say, I didn't wear anything spectacular so I didn't take pictures.

What you get today is my outfit from Sunday when we went to church. A dress and a belt. Still nothing spectacular, but proof that I do get dressed on the weekends. Just in case there was any doubt. :) 


















Hope you all had a wonderful Monday and have an even better Tuesday!

Today's outfit: 
Dress: Ross
Belt: Salvation Army
Sandals: Beall's

Monday, August 15, 2011

Proper Professional: Mix and Match Fashion

The Proper Professional feature was birthed out of my desire to spread the blogging love while also gaining some insight into professional and business attire in various situations. My goal is to feature bloggers from all different professions, whether stay-at-home moms, mega-corporation executive assistants, work-from-home employees, small office staff, business owners or more, to view different perspectives and opinions on what is appropriate, acceptable, and professional. Hopefully you'll be inspired and introduced to some great new blogs, too! To catch up on previous interviews, click here.

Today we're meeting Tara from Mix and Match Fashion. Tara has such a fantastic eye for incorporating bright colors into professional ensembles. She is one of my absolute favorite reads and I know you'll find a ton of inspiration in her, too!

Tell us a little about yourself and your blog.
I'm Tara, a 30-year-old who looks like she's 20 from good old New Jersey. (no fist pumping here...ha) I live with my amazing husband and two miniature Australian shepherds, who love to be photographed and make appearances on my blog. I started Mix and Match Fashion last September after about a year of reading fashion blogs, in hopes that I had something positive to contribute to the blogging community. I wanted to show people that most teachers are not frumpy, which is a common stereotype. I also wanted working women to see that your work wardrobe doesn't have to be boring.
 
How did you come up with your blog name?
Realistically, most women cannot afford to buy new clothes all of the time. However, many blogs out there make it seem that way, and show people never wearing the same items twice! I like to take the pieces I have in my closet and mix and match them to make new outfits, while mixing in some select new pieces (when LOFT and Ann Taylor have big sales...lol) My main thing is incorporating color and pattern into my outfits....which is where "mixing in splashes of color" comes in. It's not the most creative name in the world, but I think it represents what I do on my blog.
 
Do you work from home or outside the home, and what do you do?
I teach Middle School Special Education and Social Studies. This will be my ninth year teaching, and I absolutely love it! It is a lot of hard work, but totally worth it. I am also an Independent Stylist for Stella and Dot jewelry, so this is where I get my fashion fix.
 
Do you have a dress code by which you need to abide (either corporate or self-imposed)? If so, what is it and how do your co-workers (if applicable) approach the dress code?
I'm pretty sure that our dress codes reads something like "Teachers will dress in a professional manner at all times."  This leaves a lot open to interpretation, and people definitely interpret it in their own ways.  The one thing our principal is adamant about is not wearing jeans and rubber flip flops.  (Although we are allowed to wear jeans on Fridays)  This means on a daily basis I see everything from skirts to fleece sweat suits....and the month of December gets very interesting with the approaching Christmas season.  Most people do dress appropriately, but every office has their one or two people who push the limits, right?
 
Do you choose your outfits in advance or in the morning, and how long does it take you to get ready in the mornings?
Honestly, this depends on my mood.  Every once in a great while if I have time, I will spend an hour or so on a Sunday trying on outfits and planning them out for the week.  Other times, I might have an outfit in my head the night before and hope it looks good the next day.  On some days, it is a free-for-all in my closet that morning.  I am going to try and be better this year about planning out my outfits ahead of time, because I like to get to work pretty early and not be stressed out when I get there.  I shower at night, so generally it takes me about an hour or so to get ready in the morning.  
 
If you were commissioned to rewrite the dress code, what would you change (if anything)?
I would probably make it a lot more specific, especially pointing out things that are not appropriate. 
 
Do you think companies should take into account the potential cost for certain dress codes to be achieved and if so, should they be concerned about the cost being equal for both men and women?
I think that your work wardrobe gets ridiculously expensive only if you allow it to. There are many stores out there at different price points for different budgets. I think the most important thing you can do is set a realistic budget and stick to it. You also need to make the most of items that are already in your closet. I don't think it is a company's responsibility to worry about the costs of your wardrobe.
 
What is your definition of professional attire and would this vary if the business is a small business compared to a larger corporation?
I think the most important thing is looking neat, clean, confident and put together. What is professional attire varies so much between different lines of work. I don't think it has to do with the size of a business, more with the type of business. 
 
What are some pieces that every woman should have available in their professional arsenal?
1) A few pairs of well-fitting trousers in neutral colors, such as black, brown, and gray
2) A few skirts in neutral colors, as well as at least one skirt in a fun color, such as red, pink, or blue
3)  Black and brown heels  Also, one pair of heels in a fun color (I vote red, pink, or yellow)  A fun pair of shoes can make an outfit look so much more amazing.
4) A well-fitting blazer
5) Several cardigans in a variety of colors
6) Several tops with interesting, work appropriate patterns and details
7) A well-fitting dress
8) Some jewelry pieces that you love

Having the above items will allow you to make the most of your wardrobe, and mix and match to create numerous looks without a massive amount of clothing.

 
What pieces are never professionally appropriate regardless of the situation?
Wrinkled clothing, clothes that don't fit, mini skirts, anything low cut, flip flops, sweatpants
 
Describe an outfit you'd wear in each of the following settings: 
1. A typical day at work. 
My typical work uniform is a pencil skirt, fun top, cardigan, and heels.
 
2. A formal business meeting.  
If I have a meeting with parents or the principal, I am more likely to wear a dress.
 
3. An informal meeting with co-workers.  
I would probably still be wearing some sort of skirt or possibly trousers, though I don't wear pants to work super often.
 
4. A business dinner with co-workers and superiors.
Depending on where we were going, I might wear a skirt or a nice fitting pair of boot cut dark wash jeans. 
 
 
Isn't Tara fantastic? Thank you so much for taking the time to answer these, Tara! You're awesome. :) 
 
And today, my friends, I am taking the day off from work because MY BABY IS STARTING PRE-SCHOOL!!! Man, I feel old.

Have a happy Monday, everyone!